"you know what your dad says about assuming"

one time me and michael were heading out one friday night (i honestly think we were going to the grocery store) when my dad called me into his office and was like "kalli where are you going?" me being my snotty 18 year old self replied "i'm assuming that you know we are going out, why do you even care?" my dad then proceeded to explain to me what assuming does to a person.... i just rolled my eyes.  ever since that night me and michael have always joked about my dad and assuming but it has stuck with me nothing good comes from assuming and to take it a step farther judging.  
everybody is going through something different and struggling inside.  i had a really weird day today and i don't feel completely myself, and i found myself reflecting on all the times i have gotten annoyed at my room mates and sisters when they have off days and don't act themselves.  who am i to be mad that my room mates are frustrating me and putting a damper on my day when they are struggling themselves.  any way  i was thinking about this at the temple and while getting ready for bed and then i decided to watch a mormon message for my daily does of upliftment (is that a word?) and i pulled up the most recent one loaded on my computer and it happened to be this one looking through windows.  it's pretty quirky but i love the message.  but it gets even better.  after watching the mormon message i was looking through my favorite blog "the shine project" and her latest post was all about not assuming.  this girl is seriously the coolest person ever.  I just would love to be like her when i grow up (if i ever actually decide to grow up) any way check out her post here it's called assumptions.  any way i'm going to go to bed and sleep off this diet coke coma and hopefully wake up tomorrow on time! <3